Dating by Sexy, the only place on the web that you can get your pickup and dating questions answered for free.

Welcome to another episode of our Dating by Sexy Q&A Podcast. We take the questions you guys ask us and try to stay sober long enough to answer your questions.

Q&A Ladder Theory

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This episode’s questions

1. Greeting from Poland this is a helpful site. I”m wondering if you have any advice on staying out of the friendzone with girls. HONESTLY! I’m sick of women telling me they just want to be friends. Maybe I’m too nice of a guy?
C. Dundas

2. Some background I am a girl who fully endorses ladder theory to explain why men and women can’t be friends. My question if a guy have slept together and it has been mutually decided that they are simply impcompatible in bed is it then at a point that they can be friends? My thinking is since the whole sex thing been figured out wouldn’t the sexual tension that was previously interfering with a platonic relationship be gone?
Jessica

3. Why do i feel like the more time that goes by that i haven’t closed the more i feel like i could be losing the chick
Ken

4. I can open, but I wanna stay in the set. I’m real good at observing something real quick and opening with it. Even doing it funny. But, hooking is weak. How do I hook?
Steve

5. There’s this girl that works at the same restaurant as me and I want to ask her out and all our co-workers keep telling me I should go for it. But, I don’t really know what to do. I’m thinking of asking her and her friends to hang out with me and my friends. But, I don’t know how to do that exactly.
The Artist

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Welcome to Red Room 2.0

This weekend was another milestone for the DbS Crew. Officially, the reconstruction of the Red Room is now complete. Say hello to Red Room 2.0 - Club Neon! We will be conducting all of our future interviews, video updates and video shows in Club Neon. So sit back and watch as the magic unfolds…

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Here it is!

The Dating by Sexy radio interview you’ve all been waiting for. In this clip you can expect all the Disco Awesomeness that comes every time we make an appearance. On the show we talk a little bit about how we started, explain about our philosophy, describe the current boot camp special and give our review of a personal ad…and now it comes with less musical interruptions, commercials or anything else that might get in the way of hearing us talk.

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So the site was down for a week, thanks to some clever Spambot’s … luckily we caught the problem in time and were able to correct it before any damage occurred.

In the words of Drama from Entourage … “VICTORY!!!”

We have a bunch of new material coming your way …

- Excerpts of our interview on Upstate Ny radio.
- New articles.
- Brand new Podcast with more of your questions asked.
- And much more.

Stay fresh,
The Datingbysexy Crew

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The Dating by Sexy Crew will be on air this Wednesday at 4pm on 94.1 The Zone. Tre from The Zone will be talking to us about our date coaching service and trying to find out what makes us so awesome.

So check it out this Wednesday at 4pm on 94.1 if you’re in the area. If you’re not in the area, you can listen to us streaming here:
http://thezone941.com/streaming/

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Check out this week’s edition of The Insider. The Dating by Sexy Crew is on the cover and had the lead article for this issue. It covers what we do, how we help guys improve their lives and our overall awesomeness. Grab your copy today. Boys and Girls of Upstate New York thank you for all your continuous support and love.

- Dating by Sexy Crew

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Unfortunately in this world there are many people who are unaware of how much of a moron they really are. Or at the very least are unaware as to how incompetent they are in certain areas of life. This is what’s referred to as the Dunning-Kruger Effect.

Often times this incompetence, especially when this incompetence is a collective group and not just an individual, could lead to terrible things…like the collapse of a global economy. But, in some cases this kind of ignorance to one’s own stupidity could lead to wonderfully hilarious blunders that become newsworthy and Read the rest of this entry »

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Dating by Sexy, the only place on the web that you can get your pickup and dating questions answered for free.

Welcome to another episode of our Dating by Sexy Q&A Podcast. We take the questions you guys ask us and try to stay sober long enough to answer your questions. And no, we were not high for this episode. Apparently a meal at Friendly’s has the same side affects as THC.

Q&A Swear to god we were not high!

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It was called funny, it was called great, it was called ground breaking, informative, shocking, insulting, ridiculous, the ultimate example of what the Internet has to offer and most of all it was called INTOXICATING!

I am talking about none other than the first half of the Drunken Interview with Ross Jeffries. Well, now it’s time to unleash the better (see drunker) half of that interview. Expect to hear more singing, more insulting, more things to learn and watch as we continue to enjoy our tasty beverages.

And now a reminder about what this interview involves. In a once in a lifetime moment we actually get Ross a little drunk. Among the plethora of life stories, biographical information, pickup advice and philosophical discuss; Mehows and Savoys sexuality comes into question, Vince Kelvin gets verbally assaulted on multiple occasions and Mystery gets an explanation as to why his methods actually work.

We brush over the history of Ross relationship with NLP, comedy writing and Ross gives his side of the events that take place in Neil ‘Style’ Strauss’ The Game.

As the hilarity ensues, the interview quickly turns into the Dating by Sexy’s variety show. As Ross does Groucho Marx impressions, retells some of his own comedic gems and even sings!

Many thanks to:
- Our new friend Ross
- The beautiful ladies who were there for Izo during the countless hours of the video editing problems and their help with spelling
- Sulli the Pirate for helping with the construction of the Red Room and for technical assistance
- Kill Zone for Photography
- Dave for making the sick ass theme song
- Tom Cruise and Scientology for being such scum

Episode #1 Recipe:
1 part Vodka
1 part Midori
1 part Pineapple Juice

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